Tuesday, November 1, 2022

Midwest Fall Trip and a Tale of Two Moms - Fall, 2022 Part 2

 Monday - October 10, 2022

We left home at 9:00 am heading out on the second part of our fall trip.  We were not able to go to all of the state parks that we had planned to visit before Juanita died because it was too late in the season.  Many of the parks were either not open or had shut the water off.  We decided to do an abbreviated trip visiting only state parks in the lower part of Michigan.  We traveled on I-49 to I-44 to the St. Louiis West KOA.  When we got to Joplin, Missouri our low tire pressure light came on.  We tried to air the tire up, but were unable to access the stem.  We drove into Joplin to a Wal-Mart Supercenter and the man in the auto center was able to air the tire up.  He had to remove the hubcap with a special tool which is something we would be unable to do.  We arrived at the KOA around 4:30 pm.  I cooked soup for dinner.  This was a nice KOA and for the first time we were able to use the TV.  

Beginning of the trip selfie

Pretty fall colors in the KOA

Camping spot

After dinner we called Scott to wish him a Happy Birthday.  Overall, except for the low tire, this was a pretty good day.

Tuesday - October 11, 2022

We left camp around 9:00 am taking I-44 through St. Louis. Traffic was pretty heavy through the city, but got better when we got to the east.  After two hours the low tire pressure light came on again for the other rear tires.  We stopped at the nearest Wal-Mart Supercenter and got all three aired up.  After this we had no problem with the tires.  We think the temperature had gotten so much colder that it made the tire pressure too low.

View of the Gateway Arch in St. Louis

Another view of the arch through the dining table window

When we got to Indianapolis there was road construction on I-70 so we had to take a detour.  Traffic was horrible because there were several main highways which also had road construction.  With all of the delays and detours we still made it to the Indianapolis KOA by 4:30 pm.  We were really tired because of the stressful driving.

Wednesday - October 12, 2022

We took showers before leaving the KOA since we wouldn't have full hookups at the other campgrounds. We left camp around 10:00 am.  Traffic in Indianapolis was bad again, but once we got out of the city it was better.  We took Hwy 31 to I-195 in Michigan.  The trees in Michigan were really pretty.  It rained during the last hour of the drive.  We stayed at Holland State Park on Lake Michigan just outside of Holland, Michigan.  When we entered the park we bought a yearly car passport for Michigan for $36.  We will get our money's worth since we will be staying in four state parks on this trip.  Our campsite was a little muddy, but wasn't much of a problem.  We got the electricity hooked up and it started raining again.  

Campsite close to the check in spot

Another view of our campsite

Thursday - October 13, 2022

We slept until about 8:30 am then I cooked sausage, potatoes, cheese, egg burritos for breakfast.  It rained hard overnight and we had a small leak in the bathroom shower.  We think it is from the same spot that was supposed to be fixed when we first bought the RV.   We dressed warmly with polypropylene and omni wool undergarments, jackets, and gloves so we could go walking.  We walked to Pisgah Mountain (which is the top of a sand dune) on the Pisgah boardwalk.  Just as we got started on the walk it began to sleet so we turned around and stood under a gazebo until the sleet stopped.  When it quit sleeting we walked 375 steps up to the top of the dune to an overlook.  There were very pretty views of Lake Macatawa and Lake Michigan.

State Park Sign

Really pretty trees in campground


Mike at the beginning of the Pisgah Trail

Mary on the stairs to the top of Mt. Pisgah


View of Lake Macatawa

It was cold out!

Mike at the overlook on top of stairs

Mary on the overlook with Lake Michigan 
in the background

The steps were very slick and covered with leaves.  On the way down Mike slipped and fell down a few steps.  Luckily he was not injured, didn't even get sore or have any bruises the next day.  We went back to the RV, ate lunch, and warmed up some.  Later in the afternoon we took a walk on the boardwalk by Lake Macatawa.  We saw ducks and a couple of swans.  While walking through the campground we saw the largest sassafras tree that either of us had ever seen.  It was a very pretty tree, also. It was nice and sunny while we were walking in the afternoon.  Lake Macatawa is a pretty lake and had really pretty fall colors.

Large sassafras tree

Swans on Lake Macatawa

We got back to the RV and around 4:30 pm and it started raining again.  We ate the rest of the soup for dinner and then sat in the RV reading the rest of the evening.  Jim texted to let us know that Mom was not doing well today.  

Friday - October 14, 2022

We slept in this morning and had leftovers for breakfast.  Even though it was cool and cloudy, we walked to Ottawa Beach on Lake Michigan.  We had a 2 1/2 mile walk that took us until 12:30 pm.  

In. front of lighthouse by Ottawa Beach on Lake Michigan

View on Lake Macatawa

Once back at the RV we had lunch and sat inside and read until dinner. For dinner we walked to Playa Tacos for dinner.  This restaurant is next to the state park and was very good.  Mike had a beer and chicken tacos and I had a margarita and chicken nachos.  Everything we got was on the happy hour menu so was relatively cheap.  Mike starting feeling ill so he walked back to the RV while I finished my dinner.  When finished with my meal I paid and got back to the RV by 5:00 pm.  It was a good meal and I even had leftovers.  We sat and read in the RV until bedtime.  

Saturday - October 15, 2022

It all rained off and on all night, but there was not anymore leaking in the RV.  It was really cold this morning.  We sat around inside until after lunch then walked 1 1/2 miles by Lake Macatawa.  It was still cold so we went back to the RV and watched college football since we were able to get the ABC network using the antenna.  We both took showers then I fixed macaroni and cheese with ground turkey and green peas for dinner.  After dinner we got things ready to leave for our next stop.  Amy texted that Mom fell this morning.  This has been happening more and more frequently.

Sunday - October 16, 2022

I got up at 7:30 am and was able to view a beautiful sunrise.  I could see that the sunrise was going to be good when I looked out of the RV so I got dressed and walked across the road to Lake Macatawa.  It was totally worth the effort.

View of the sunrise from our campsite

View of sunrise over Lake Macatawa

After breakfast we broke camp, dumped the tanks, and filled the freshwater tank back up.  We weren't sure that the water would be on at the next state park.  We got on the road by 9:30 am and stopped at a Wal-Mart Supercenter in Zeeland to get supplies.  We drove across Michigan to the Saginaw Bay area.  As we were getting close to Lake Huron we saw a lot of beet fields and eventually saw a sugar beet factory.  We got to Port Crescent State Park on Lake Huron around 4:00 pm.  Check in at this state park was by phone.  It was quick and easy.  Our site was very unlevel, and the electric hookup was a long way from the site.  We were barely able to get in a spot that was level enough and that the electric cord would reach, but finally got it worked out. 

View of campground from the beach

At the beach with Lake Huron behind us

Lake Huron - it was very windy

View of the bathhouse and Lake Huron from our site

View of our campsite

Another view of the site - hard to tell how unlevel it was

After setting up camp we walked to the beach and around the campground.  The weather was cool, but not raining.  We were able to watch PBS channels which gave us something to do while we were stuck inside the RV.  

Monday - October 17, 2022

We slept in this morning.  It has rained all night and a small amount of leaking occurred into the shower.  I cooked sausage links, fried eggs, and toast for breakfast.  After breakfast we walked 1 1/2 miles around the campground.  

Entrance sign into the campground

A beautiful tree next to the check in station

Mike on our short walk

Mary in front of Lake Huron - it was not nice out

I cooked baked potatoes, ham, and cheese for lunch.  There wasn't much else to do except cook and eat since it rained and the wind blew hard all afternoon and evening.  It had also gotten very cold so I fixed chili for dinner.  I had a molar break while eating a cracker with the chili.  I was able to fix it temporarily with a repair kit I had bought.  It worked good enough until we got home from the trip and I was able to get a dental appointment.  We are already tired of the rain and cold weather.

Tuesday - October 18, 2022

It was extremely cold today.  We walked around the campground once in the morning and again in the afternoon just to get out of the RV some.  It was very windy and cold, but was not raining until the evening.  I baked cornbread to go with our chili.  Nothing much happened this day.

Wednesday - October 19, 2022

It was cold and windy again all day.  I showered in the RV.  Mike went to the bathhouse to shower, but there was no hot water.  He decided to put off a shower for another day.  We have not enjoyed our time at Port Crescent State Park very much.  The weather has been too bad to enjoy it much.  I baked potatoes in the oven.  It made the RV nice and toasty warm.  We sat in the RV reading all day.  It was too cold to walk outside.  We were glad to be leaving the next day.  We were hoping for better weather at our next stop.  We were able to watch a Nature show on PBS in the evening.  It was nice to have the TV while we were stuck inside.

Thursday - October 20, 2022

It was cold and windy again.  We broke camp, dumped the tanks, and refilled the freshwater tank and left Port Crescent State Park by 10:30 am.  We were glad to be going to another park.  We stopped at a Wal-Mart in Bay City for supplies and ate lunch at a Subway Sandwich shop.  We got to Bay City State Park at 1:00 pm.  This was a nice campground, but our site was kind of muddy from all of the rain.  It was sunny in the afternoon so we walked around the campground after we got camp set up.  

Campground entrance

One view of our site - trees were pretty

Mike sitting out until it got too cool -
notice the mud in front of the RV

We think that there was a vintage RV event this weekend because a lot of the other campers had vintage RV's of some type.  It was interesting looking at these.  After our walk, it got cloudy and cool so we sat in the RV reading before having leftovers for dinner.

Friday - October 21, 2022

We slept in this morning.  It was cold overnight but was bearable.  I cooked sausage, egg, potato, and cheese burritos for breakfast.  We walked 4 miles on a trail that went by Lake Huron and through a part of the park.  It was a beautiful, clear day, much better than the last four days.

Section of the trail on the beach

Lake Huron from the beach

View of a power plant on Lake Huron

Mike enjoyed the hike

Mary on the boardwalk section of the trail

Enjoying the weather!

When we got back to camp I cooked pork stew for dinner.  YUM!  This was a mighty fine day.  We really enjoyed finally getting out and enjoying nature after all of the days sitting in the RV.

Saturday - October 22, 2022

We slept in again this morning.  We had a light breakfast then packed cheese, ham, crackers, chips, and an apple to go.  We hiked 5 1/2 miles around the Tobico Marsh.  It was a beautiful hike.  The only part we didn't like was at the end of the hike we tried to take a short cut and ended up walking about a half of a mile on the highway back to the campground.  

Beautiful view of trees from the top of a tower

Mary on the trail

Good day for a hike

Amazing fall colors

Mike toward the end of the trail

Marsh sign by the highway

After our hike we both took showers in the bathhouse. It was a really nice bathhouse with separate rooms for each shower and plenty of hot water.  After that we had leftover stew for dinner.  This was a really good and enjoyable day.

Sunday - October 23, 2022                   Happy 69th Birthday, Mary

We woke up to another nice day.  After a late breakfast we walked 1 1/2 miles on the Riverwalk Trail to the Kawkawlin River.  The trail wasn't what we expected - a large part was by the side of a busy highway.  We ate lunch at Castaway Restaurant next to the river.  Pretty views, but the food was just okay - except for the fries which were really good.  

Kawkawlin River next to the restaurant

In front of the restaurant

When we got back to camp, I noticed a sign that said that the bathhouse closed after the 23rd and that the water in the campground would be shut off.  Because of this we unhooked so that we could go dump the tanks and refill the freshwater tank then went back and set camp up again.  It really didn't take very long.  Mike took a shower and I cleaned the RV.  We sat outside afterward enjoying the good weather day.  This was a good birthday for me.

Monday - October 24, 2022

We left Bay City State Park at 10:30 am and took Hwy 13N to 23N to Tawas Point State Park.  We stopped on the way at an IGA for our last grocery shopping of this trip.  Tawas Point is a very pretty state park.  There were not very many other campers here because it was so late in the season, even though Tawas Point stays open and has water year round.  We were in site #60 which had a really nice view of Lake Huron.

Section of highway on way to park

Entering the park

Lake Huron close to our campsite

At the lighthouse

After setting up camp we walked to the lighthouse and around the campground - around 2 miles.  We ate leftovers for dinner before sitting outside for a while.  There are a lot of black squirrels in this park.  They could actually be a problem.  This was a really beautiful day.

Mike sitting out enjoying the nice day

Our campsite with a view of Lake Huron

One of the many black squirrels

View of Lake Huron from our campsite

Tuesday - October 25, 2022

I got up at 8:00 am, made coffee, then walked a half mile to the beach to see the sunrise.  It was beautiful and well worth my effort.  The weather today was really nice.  

Sunrise over the small pond in the park

Sunrise over Lake Huron

After breakfast we walked the Sandy Hook Trail to Tawas Point and back.  While we were walking we saw a Coast Guard helicopter in some training exercises.  This was interesting to watch.

At Tawas Point on Lake Huron

Tawas Point

Swans on Lake Huron

Hawk eating a mouse

After lunch we read then walked around the campground.  There are still not many other campers here, only about six.  We had leftovers for dinner.  I walked over 3 1/2 miles and Mike 2 1/2 miles today.  Another really good day.

Wednesday - October 26, 2022

Today was rainy and cool.  We only walked a little bit around the campground between rainy spells.  We mostly sat in the RV reading all day.  We had leftover chili and hot dogs for dinner.

Thursday - October 27, 2022

This was a cold morning, but sunny.  I cooked fried eggs, sausage, and toast for breakfast.  After lunch we walked over two miles to the beach and back by the lighthouse.

View of Lake Huron

Walked by the lighthouse one last time

After our walk we both took showers.  The bathhouse was nice, with plenty of hot water, but we had to keep pushing a button to keep the water running.  I had to push it about 10 times just to rinse my hair.  Some squirrels got on our roof and one of them caused a small tear on the vinyl covering of our slide.  I fixed it with a small amount of anti-leak tape.  This was a very pleasant afternoon.  In the evening we walked across the road to view the best sunset of our trip. 

Beautiful sunset


I baked pizza for dinner.  This was a really good last day in a state park.

Friday - October 28, 2022

We left Tawas Point State Park at 9:00 am after dumping the tanks.  I had a problem with the black tank again with quite a bit of sewage coming out when I took the cap off.  Luckily I had the pan under it to catch the waste.  This was a nice day for driving.  We took Hwy. 23 to I-75 to I-69 to Bluffton, Indiana KOA.  This was just an okay KOA, nothing special to mention but it worked for an overnight.

Saturday - October 29, 2022

We left camp at 10:00 am.  On the way to the Louisville South KOA, we stopped at an Aldi's and bought a big bag of Halloween candy because we had received a text telling us that there would be trick or treating while we were there.  After we got checked in at the KOA we did a two mile hike on a nature trail in the KOA.  It was a nice, not too difficult trail that went to a bluff outcropping.

Bridge by Louisville

Hiking trail

Bluff at the end of the trail

After our hike we handed out candy to trick or treaters from 5:00 - 6:00.  This is an event they have every year the Saturday before Halloween.  We had a lot of fun doing this.  

Sunday - October 30, 2022

We left the Louisville KOA by 9:00 am.  It rained hard on and off all day while we were traveling.  We were glad we were on roads we were familiar with.  We got to the Sikeston Drury Inn around 4:30 pm, took showers, then went down for drinks and dinner.  This was a good night and end of our trip.

Monday - October 31, 2022

We got on the road by 7:45 am.  Weather today was better for driving.  We took Hwy 60 to Hwy 65 to Hwy 412 to Hwy 45 to Hwy 62 to home.  While we were on 412 The Meadows called because Mom was out of some medicine.  I had to arrange for the prescription to be refilled and then call Anita to have her pick it up.  We made it home by 3:30 pm.  This was a nice trip except for all of the rainy days.

Monday, October 10, 2022

Midwest Fall Trip and a Tale of Two Moms - Fall 2022 - Part 1

 Sunday - September 11, 2022

We left at 8:30 am on our way to the midwest around the Great Lakes.  We stopped at The Meadows to visit with Mom on our way.  She was pretty lethargic and was not feeling well.  The nurse told me that Mom doesn't always keep her oxygen line in her nose correctly.  We left there around 10:00 headed to Lake Wappapello State Park in Missouri.  We took I49N to I44E to 60E to 67N to 172E to the park.  On our way we stopped at the Jolly Cone in Van Buren, MO to get ice cream.  YUM!  Missouri state parks have self check in online that is convenient and very easy.  This is a nice state park with camping right next to Lake Wappapello.  The site has electricity, but no water or sewer hook ups.  We filled our fresh water tank, but only managed to get the tank half full.  We need to do a better job of monitoring the level.  The weather today was nice and the park was very quiet.

Our beginning of the trip photo.

View of our campsite with Lake Wappapello in the background

We got camp set up by 4:30 pm and used the oven in our RV to bake a frozen pizza for dinner since we were too tired to cook anything else.  We really like the stove and oven in our RV.  It makes everything easier.

Monday - September 12, 2022

We slept in this morning then I fried a couple of eggs to add to the sausage and biscuit that I had cooked before leaving home.  After breakfast we hiked the Asher Creek Trail.  This is a pretty trail that starts by the lake then climbs the mountain behind the campground.  One part of the trail wasn't well marked and we hiked a spur that led to the park road before turning around.  The last half of the trail was very steep.  Mike got pretty unsteady so we stopped and ate some lunch that I had packed.  The hike was 3 1/2 miles long and took us from 9:30 - 12:30.

Mike on the trail

Mary on trail

Enjoying the hike

Mary by the sign on our detour


Amy called, Mom had fallen again.  The Meadows wants to add personal assistance to her care.  I said to do it.  Whatever it takes to keep her at The Meadows.  (This is the beginning of why I titled this blog a Tale of Two Moms).  We sat outside all afternoon since it was such nice weather.  I cooked chicken alfredo for dinner then we sat inside reading before calling it a night.  This was a good start to our trip.

Tuesday - September 13, 2022

We left camp about 9:30 am on our way to Red Hills State Park in Illinois.  We took I57 to Hwy 50 to Hwy 250 to Red Hills State Park.  We stopped at a rest stop for lunch.  Traffic was heavy for about 50 miles after we got on I57 until taking the exit for Hwy 50 at Salem, Illinois.  We stopped at a Dollar General to get milk and Tums  and made it to the state park around 4:00 pm.  The campground was nice with only one other set of campers in our section of the campground.  Once again we had electricity, but no water hookup.  We managed to completely fill the fresh water tank this time.  It's really not a problem to not have water hookup since we have a large fresh water tank.  

View of the small lake by our campsite

Our campsite - Mike is enjoying the outdoors.

We were glad that we had our own bathroom and shower because the facilities here were nasty.  Mary took a shower then we had dinner and sat reading until bedtime.  This is a very peaceful campground.

Wednesday - September 14, 2022

We slept in then I cooked sausage, egg, cheese burritos for breakfast.  Anita called.  Mom fell again.  We are going to arrange for a service for her for four hours a day, seven days a week.  It is kind of pricey, but will hopefully keep her at The Meadows.  After breakfast we walked 2 1/2 miles around the park.  Once again we had really nice weather.

The lake below our campsite.

A pond on our hike that has wood duck boxes in it.

In the afternoon a man set up camp with a trailer next to us.  He fished at the dock a while, then broke camp and left.  That was kind of strange.  Maybe something happened that made him need to leave.  I made chicken salad for my lunch.  After lunch we sat outside all afternoon reading and watching the birds.  This was a nice, quiet day.

Thursday - September 15, 2022

We left camp about 9:30 am after dumping the gray and black water tanks.  We took a lot of small highways into Indiana to Tippecanoe River State Park.  We stopped on our way to the park at a Wal-Mart to get supplies.  They didn't sell alcohol so I will have to teetotal for a few nights.  Oh well, it will do me good. We saw a lot of fields of corn and soybeans while we were driving.  The state park is really nice.  It had a gate for check in so we were able to get hiking information.  There is lots of hiking with one trail starting right behind our site (#035).  We spent three nights here so were able to have two days of hiking.  Our site has electricity only again.  

Entrance for the park

Site #035

Saturday is a 'poker paddle' event so the park will be busy over the weekend.  There are over 150 sites at this campground. We had leftover alfredo and corn on the cob for dinner.  It was nice sitting outside under the large trees.  

Friday - September 16, 2022

We slept in this morning until about 9:00 am.  When I got up I cooked fried eggs to go with our frozen sausage/biscuits.  After breakfast we hiked on Trail 4 that started behind our campsite to the Nature Center.  Unfortunately the Nature Center wasn't open.  We viewed the Tippecanoe River from a couple of overlooks by the Nature Center then hiked Trail 4 through the Tippecanoe River State Nature Reserve.  This reserve is in a marsh and the hike was an easy 2.2 miles.  We ate lunch on a bench by the trail and got back to camp by 1:30 pm.

Tippecanoe River

Mike by the river

Mary at the second overlook of the river

Mike on Trail 4 in the marsh

Mary on the same trail

Beginning of the marsh

We sat outside all afternoon because the weather was so nice.  There was a chipmunk under the picnic table that eventually ran under my chair.  I believe it was looking for a handout.  Mike grilled pork chops for dinner and I microwaved corn on the cob and green beans.  This was a good dinner.  As we expected the campground got full this evening, but it still was a quiet area.

Saturday - September 17, 2022

We slept in again.  I didn't sleep well, not going to sleep until well after midnight.  I got a call from The Meadows, but didn't have cell service to talk.  The message just said Mom didn't feel well and asked me to call.  Amy talked to them and Mom just didn't feel well.  Amy and Don were on their way home from a trip to Maine.  Anita visited Mom and by noon she was dressed and ready to go to lunch.  Mike and I hiked parts of Trails 3, 4, and 5 - mainly 5 - about 2 1/2 miles total. This trail went by the river most of the time making for a nice hike.

A picture of the river with some 'poker float' participants

After lunch Mike got a text that his Mom had gotten worse.  We decided to head home on Sunday and finish the rest of the trip some other time.  So, a Tale of Two Moms.  

Sunday - September 18, 2022

We got up at 7:00 am and I made breakfast to take with us.  At the dump station, I failed to get the sewer hose attached correctly and the black water leaked out a lot before I could shut the valve.  It made a big mess.  It took me a while, but I got everything hosed down and dumped and we got on our way by 8:00 am.  We took Hwy. 35 toward Indianapolis then I 65 to Louisville and the Western Kentucky Parkway to the Drury Inn in Paducah.  We went by a lot of soybean fields in Indiana that were changing color to yellow.  They made the fields a really pretty color.  

A field of soybeans

Another soybean field

We decided to stay at a hotel on the way home so that we could do two long days and get home quickly.  So far there was no change in the condition of Mike's Mom.

Monday - September 19, 2022  through Sunday - October 9, 2022

We left the hotel early after having the buffet breakfast.  After we got home we found out that Juanita had died.  She was just a week short of making her 98th birthday.  Scott flew in on Thursday September 22 and we traveled to Sherwood on Saturday September 24.  Eric joined us on Sunday, he had been in Virginia for a work meeting.  Juanita's funeral was Monday, September 26.  It was sad, but she had a long and good life.  

The grandsons who served as pall bearers: L to R: Mark, Ray, 
Landen, Adrian, Nate, Scott, Eric, Trey

The grandkids: L to R: Mark, Angie, Ray, Landen, Adrian, Nate, 
Scott, Eric, Trey, Candice, Kyla

Sam, Michael, Carole, Joyce, Wayne

We all four went back to Prairie Grove that afternoon and Scott flew back to Virginia on Wednesday, September 28.  Anita and I had a meeting with Megan and Candice (the head nurse) at The Meadows to discuss options for Mom's care.  We decided to get her on hospice care to see if that would help the situation.  On October 4, Mike and I went to Sherwood to help Sam, Wayne, and Dianne begin the clean out of Juanita's house.  We stayed there for 3 days and got a lot accomplished, but still have a lot to do.  On Friday, October 7, I went to Bentonville to visit Mom.  She was in her room and not doing too well.  Mike and I decided to do another section of our Midwest trip beginning Monday, October 10.  This has been a crazy month.